What you are looking for is already in you…You already are everything you are seeking.
Anonymous asked: How do we fall in love with ourselves? How do we not need another person. How do we eliminate the dependence of falling in love with another to fall in love with ourselves?
I don’t have a straightforward answer for you. I didn’t really have a choice. I was too dependent, then rejected. Then I kept losing people and I was sick of it so I fell back into myself. I became independent out of fear and then I grew from that and learned to love myself and be content with being alone. So me not wanting to fall in love isn’t entirely healthy - I think falling in love with one other person again actually scares the shit out of me. I’m already in love with myself and the world and strangers but I run away from things that are real. So I’m on the opposite end of the scale, not yet balanced.